Reasons why you shouldn’t do that
REASON 1: PEOPLE DON’T CHANGE
You naively persuade yourself, “Maybe this time will be different.” Despite knowing better, you choose to ignore the situation.
If you’ve had enough traumatic events with such a person, you know in your heart that they never grow or develop. When you return, everything will be just as it was before, despite their apparent repentance. No matter how weak your emotions may be, you must be strong enough to convince yourself not to return to a poisonous person.
REASON 2: YOU’RE NOT IMPORTANT TO THEM
Keep in mind that they will never take care of your wants or desires, and you will always rank last on their priority list. You aren’t in their lives to make them feel better; rather, you’re there to satisfy their demands and feed their ego.
While it is in one’s control to be happy, it is also undesirable to feel alone, depressed, heartbroken, or offended as a result of the behavior of the other person in a relationship. It’s critical that both parties in a relationship are content and pleased for it to succeed. If you ever think you’d be happy alone, it’s time to end the relationship.
REASON 3: CHANGES ARE FOR THE BETTER
Humans tend to oppose change by nature. This makes moving forward very challenging. We frequently mistake familiarity for comfort, which leads us to repeatedly choose unhealthy relationships and creates a vicious cycle.
However, when you find the strength to move on, you bring optimism into your life and create new openings that let in new individuals. As time passes, you’ll meet new individuals who will treat you far better, making you feel loved once more.
