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What Is Gaslighting? The Warning Signs To Know

What Is Gaslighting? The Warning Signs To Know

Signs of Gaslighting

Being subjected to gaslighting can cause anxiety, depression, and other mental health concerns including addiction and thoughts of suicide.

For this reason, it’s important to recognize when you’re experiencing gaslighting. Ask yourself if any of the following statements ring true:

  • You doubt your feelings and reality: You try to convince yourself that the treatment you receive is not that bad or that you are too sensitive.
  • You question your judgment and perceptions: You are afraid of speaking up or expressing your emotions. You have learned that sharing your opinion usually makes you feel worse in the end, so you stay silent instead.
  • You feel vulnerable and insecure: You often feel like you “walk on eggshells” around your partner, friend, or family member. You also feel on edge and lack self-esteem.
  • You feel alone and powerless: You are convinced that everyone around you thinks you are “strange,” “crazy,” or “unstable,” just like the gaslighter says you are. This makes you feel trapped and isolated.
  • You wonder if you are what they say you are: The gaslighter’s words make you feel like you are wrong, unintelligent, inadequate, or insane. Sometimes you even find yourself repeating these statements to yourself.
  • You are disappointed in yourself and who you have become: For instance, you feel like you are weak and passive, and that you used to be stronger and more assertive.
  • You feel confused: The gaslighter’s behavior confuses you, almost as if they are Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde.
  • You worry that you are too sensitive: The person minimizes hurtful behaviors or words by saying “I was just joking” or “you need thicker skin.”
  • You have a sense of impending doom: You feel like something terrible is about to happen when you are around this person. This may include feeling threatened and on edge without knowing why.
  • You spend a lot of time apologizing: You feel the need to apologize all the time for what you do or who you are.
  • You feel inadequate: You feel like you are never “good enough.” You try to live up to the expectations and demands of others, even if they are unreasonable.
  • You second-guess yourself: You frequently wonder if you accurately remember the details of past events. You may have even stopped trying to share what you remember for fear that it is wrong.
  • You assume others are disappointed in you: You apologize all the time for what you do or who you are, assuming people are let down by you or that you have somehow made a mistake.
  • You wonder what’s wrong with you: You wonder if there’s something fundamentally wrong with you. In other words, you worry that you are not well mentally.
  • You struggle to make decisions because you distrust yourself: You would rather allow your partner, friend, or family member to make decisions for you and avoid decision-making altogether.

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