You can neither live with them nor without them: women. It’s a catchy saying, but it’s really not that useful.
You are essentially doomed if you can’t live with or without a woman. Thankfully, it is absolutely possible to have a relationship with a partner that is strong enough to endure a lifetime.
Understanding whether or not the lady is a keeper, for lack of a better term, is the actual challenge.
Although every guy will be drawn to a different type of woman, there are a few indications that you should be extra watchful of.
Call me traditional, but I don’t think a man should get married more than once. Two indicators that the lady you’ve discovered could be the last one you ever need are as follows:
1. You Trust Her
Though it goes without saying, trust is a vital component of every relationship. The most crucial thing to remember is how easily broken trust may be, particularly between people who are deeply invested with one another.
It hurts when one person betrays another’s confidence. The more someone cares about someone, the more trust is placed in them, and the more it will hurt if that trust is betrayed.
Such suffering causes huge wounds that may never fully recover. You could have found the one if you find a lady you completely trust and, more significantly, a woman you can’t fathom betraying that trust with.
2. She’s A Positive Force In Your Life, Rather Than A Negative Influence
I almost feel ashamed to admit that it took me a while to understand this. Actually, I didn’t really get it until lately. It might be hard to pinpoint exactly how someone affects your life when you’re in love.
It may be nearly hard to see the negative effects a person has on you since love can be so blinding and distracting.
There are individuals in your life who will encourage you, provide you frank criticism, and aid your development.
Then there are people who will criticize you so harshly that it is quite clear that their only goal is to harm you.
If the latter is the case with your girlfriend, end the relationship as soon as you can since it will only cause you suffering.
3. She Believes In You, Motivating You To Believe In Yourself
Suppose we had the good fortune to live to be 80 years old. That’s around 29,000 days, which is exactly how many days you should get up and fully advance in life. Finding a technique to keep oneself motivated on a daily basis might be difficult, if not impossible.
Finding the ideal lady to inspire you, though, might be the difference between achieving your goals and failing time and time again. A lady who actively and passively inspires you to be and achieve better is the ideal partner.
Giving a guy a purpose to be a better man is one of the finest gifts a woman can give him.
4. Your Life Is Much Better With Her Than It Is Without Her
Putting emotions aside, the woman you should marry is the one who enhances your life rather than detracts from it. Although it might be challenging to distinguish between the two, doing so is crucial.
You can feel that you need a woman even if you would be happier without her because of your feelings. You must stand back and assess whether having her in your life makes your life better or worse.