6. You are not going to end your unpleasant relationship
It’s easy to get caught up in the trap of prolonging a miserable relationship. We frequently deceive ourselves into thinking this doomed relationship can improve since leaving and being alone can be frightening.
The risk is that if we do this, we may accidentally run into our ideal spouse and fail to seize the opportunity to be with them.
7. Your aims are not aligned
Your long-term objectives can be too dissimilar if you meet the right person at the wrong moment. They may want to travel the world, staying in hostels and partying all night, while you desire a large family.
Even if your intentions are in line, there can still be a problem because of your different mentalities. Possibly, one of you is lightyears in advance of the other.
It is best to cross things off your bucket list so that you are prepared to settle down later, unless you are willing to throw your dreams into the trash in order to be with someone who has different plans than you.
8. They are currently not looking for a relationship
There are many good reasons someone wouldn’t want to pursue monogamy. Perhaps they believe they are too young to start a family and would regret missing the chance to be free and single.
Whatever their justification, you shouldn’t have to persuade someone to date you. They ought to be the ones seizing the chance.
9. You are not interested in a relationship
You may easily develop blind spots to how ideal this person might be for you if you’re the one convincing yourself that you’re not ready for monogamy. So, when you search for real love, try to maintain an open mind.
