BROKEN PRIVACY
Because everyone is there when you fall in love, modern relationships are unique.
They either aww or roll their eyes when they see the photos you share. They hazard educated bets about how long the romance will survive.
Additionally, your breakup is not private. When you switch to a headshot for your profile photo, everyone notices. They immediately pick it up.
Knowing that every individual on your buddy list is aware of whether you are single, in a committed relationship, or have been moving around a lot might be scary.
Even if they’ve never seen you two together in person, everyone has an opinion about your relationship. Although it is none of their concern, social media gives them the impression that it is.
VAGUENESS AND OBSCURITY
The modern relationship is unique because it fosters abandonment concerns.
It may end abruptly. It could conclude with a text message or without one. Most questions cannot be answered without a face-to-face discussion. Most wounds are left quite flimsy.
When you don’t know what you did to drive someone away, when you’re unsure if it was your fault, unfortunate timing, or lousy chemistry, it may be difficult to accept losing someone.
BOTTOM LINE
In a modern relationship, no matter how much work you put in, it’s pointless unless the other person puts in work as well.
