Many women have a hard time knowing if a man really likes them. You just can’t read minds. And guys themselves disclose very little.
How to know if he truly and deeply loves you, or if he just likes you enough to pass the time until he finds another woman…
It can be confusing at times, but that’s because the truth is, men and women think differently. So, that’s why we come up here with a list of nine common sets of behaviors that directly demonstrate that he is in love with you, even if he doesn’t say it.
9 CLEAR SIGNS HE IS IN LOVE WITH YOU
1. HE REPLIES TO YOUR TEXTS RIGHT AWAY
Some guys hardly ever reply to the messages you send them. Or they respond with very short answers. You show interest on your part, but get nothing in return. Chances are you’re dating someone who doesn’t appreciate you, or simply isn’t in love with you.
Does he always respond quickly to your messages? Then be happy with what you have. Because it’s worth interrupting whatever he’s currently doing to immediately reply.
The fact that he replies fast doesn’t mean that he has nothing going on in his life. It means that he appreciates you so much that he can’t keep his hands off the phone. Just to check if any text messages have been received from the person he loves.
2. HE KEEPS STRONG EYE CONTACT WITH YOU
Eye contact is essential to women. As a woman, you can immediately see right through a man.
He can act tough, but his eyes always reveal the truth. When he has nothing to hide and wants to open himself up, then he makes strong eye contact. It’s his way of saying: “I like you, I’ve nothing to hide, and I want you to see who I really am.”
If you’re with a man who’s doing this, then you know you are on the right track.
Guys who aren’t in love with their woman avoid eye contact with her as much as possible. It’s too confrontational. They know they’re only dating that woman for her looks or her body.
But when he can keep eye contact with you for a long time, that means he feels comfortable with you. No guy can be in love with a woman that he is not comfortable with.
So the more eye contact he makes and keeps, the more in love he is.
3. HE’S ALWAYS PAYING ATTENTION
You can’t expect him to have a perfect memory, and yet he remembers virtually everything. It’s not just because he has a great memory. It’s because he cares enough to focus on you. He puts his phone down or pauses his movie. You’re not an afterthought.
He remembers the little things. And notably things that don’t interest us much. A guy who remembers what you say, especially the small details, is a man who really cares about you. It’s a clear sign he’s in love with you.
4. HE TREATS YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS WITH RESPECT.
This is one of the most important. It’s a given that in any relationship, a man should automatically show you, your family and friends respect. The reason is simple; he cares for you and he needs to properly treat them with care as well.
While he may not like every single one of your family members or “catty” friends, he’ll keep his opinion to himself, because he knows how much they mean to you. Creating a good report with them is definitely his way of showing you he loves you, without actually saying it.
5. HE INTRODUCES YOU TO HIS FRIENDS
Sometimes guys don’t want to be seen at all with the woman they date. They’re shy or unsure whether the woman is “cool enough” to be introduced to his friends. On top of that, it’s often a sign that he doesn’t believe the relationship will last long. So he’d rather avoid losing face in front of his friends.
When it comes to men, almost everything is about status And if he feels you’re lowering that status, he won’t introduce you to friends.
Has he introduced you to his friends? Then he’s proud of you as the woman he’s dating. He believes you’re made for each other and he’s probably in love with you.
Does he tell you that he wants to introduce you to his friends? It’s perhaps the most important sign to tell if a guy is crazy about you.
6. YOU’RE THE FIRST AND THE LAST PERSON HE TALKS TO EVERY DAY
If you’re dating a guy who doesn’t like you very much… One thing you’ll notice is that he sends you a message sporadically. There’s no way of telling when. It happens whenever he feels like it.
You have no idea what he does all day, or why you never hear from him. And when you hear from him, it’s not even worth mentioning.
Then how do you know if he really loves you? He sends you a message as soon as he wakes up, and before he goes to sleep.
In other words:
- Nothing starts off his day better than talking to you.
- Nothing gives him a better night’s sleep than talking to you.
He’s clearly extremely fond of you. Don’t take this for granted and don’t play ‘hard to get’ by not answering him. You’re shooting yourself in the foot by doing that.
7. HE KEEPS YOU IN THE LOOP
A lot of guys are too busy with their own things and dislike sharing a lot of personal information with other people. Most guys don’t even tell their partner what’s going on in their life. That’s especially true if he feels that the two of you won’t last long…
But a man who is in love wants nothing more than to share his personal information and daily updates with his woman. You’re part of his life, so how can he not?
He sees you as someone he can seriously use as a sounding board and get great advice from. So he loves to discuss things with you. This can either be over text, or he might mention it in person. You won’t have to ask for it. If he’s really in love, he’ll bring it up himself.
8. HE LOVES HOW YOU LOOK ON YOUR “WORST DAYS”
Most people put effort into looking their absolute very best during those early dates. We want to look and feel good when meeting up with a potential life long partner.
But, once the actual relationship spawns and we spend more time with each other, comfort levels build, and our need to impress declines sharply. We’re free to wander around in our pajamas, no makeup or messy hair.
The big take away here is that when a man loves a woman, he’ll think she is beautiful no matter what she looks like. So when he tells you, “You’re beautiful,” when you feel like a mess, take it for what it is and remember that is the equivalent to saying, “I love you.”
9. HE TREATS YOU LIKE A REAL WOMAN
The problem with men these days, is that they’re not men anymore. Regarding men’s behavior, things are ok, but it isn’t what it used to be.
Women want a man who can bring out their femininity. A guy who makes them feel more sensual. Someone they can feel protected with.
Most men these days treat their woman as if she was their best friend Nice… but not what you want to experience as a woman.
- Are you with a man who makes you giggle?
- Are you seeing someone who makes you feel like a sensual diva?
- Do you feel like he has everything under control or can solve every possible problem?
Be happy with the man you have. Men arouse these feelings in the woman they love. Then that’s a clear sign that he’s in love with you.