MISTAKE #15: INVOLVING A THIRD PERSON
Keep your relationship issues as private as you can, whether it’s your closest friend or your mother. Even if you feel the need to vent, which is something that women frequently need to do, don’t include that person in your relationship to the point where, by taking bad relationship advice, you wind up making things worse rather than better.
You should know how to handle your difficulties, be mature about it, and don’t let someone else spoil it since you know your guy better than anybody else. Additionally, this could lead to conflict between your partner and your friends or family.
MISTAKE #16: COMPLETE DEPENDENCE ON HIM
Leaning on someone for support is okay, but depending on someone so much that they become a crutch is a profoundly harmful concept that puts your happiness, mental stability, and sense of self-worth dependent on factors outside of your control. Do not rely on your partner out of neediness but rather for support.
MISTAKE #17: BROKEN TRUST
Like a mirror, once damaged, trust is difficult to mend. No one is immune to suffering, no matter how great or powerful they are. Do not betray the trust you spent the entire relationship developing. Do not mislead him or lie to him. He dislikes hiding things from you just as much as you dislike his doing them. If you want him to put his faith in you and his emotions to be invested in you, you must do the same. If you respect him and always have his best interests in mind, he’ll be likely to envision a future with you.
MISTAKE #18: CREATING DRAMA
Men want relaxed, uncomplicated situations. They dislike being continually worked up. They become irritated and perplexed when women tend to make a mess of seemingly insignificant things since we have a tendency to dramatize even the tiniest details. It makes people anxious. You’re doing it all wrong if you prefer to cause issues or seem too emotional merely to gain his attention.
MISTAKE #19: BEING INFINITELY NEGATIVE
We all experience terrible days, so it makes sense. But you should make an effort to smile and think positively. Nobody desires to spend time with a negative Nancy. People that are joyful and exude a pleasant vibe are often attractive to us.
Smile when you get up, be thankful, and focus on the positive aspects of your life and your relationship. Your life will be better throughout as a result of this, not just in your romantic interactions.
MISTAKE #20: NOT GIVING HIM HIS SPACE
Some women have a tendency to lose sight of the fact that they are individuals first and partners second. As a result, they limit themselves to the parameters of the relationship and want their guy to do the same. They become too attached and needy and won’t respect their man’s privacy.
Don’t interfere with his personal time; let him spend time with his friends or engaging in his interests. He will choke if you try to cling to him, and he will begin to miss being single.
Leave him alone and let it alone if he’s in a foul mood or doesn’t feel like conversing. Most men find it awkward to discuss their problems in the same manner that women do. They would rather take a step back and resolve issues internally.
